"ATELOPHOBIA" ( THE FEAR OF BEING IMPERFECT ! )

"A girl who is perfect for herself !"

“Atelophobia”
I know many of you haven't heard this word before . So today I'm gonna talk about this Atelophobia , It's nothing else but “The Fear Of Being Imperfect”
A lot of people in this huge world feels a fear inside them for being an imperfect one . Let me tell you first about Imperfection , It's the state of not being perfect or  having any fault , flaw , deformity , abnormality , irregularity or anything which makes you one step below from your perfection. There are a lot imperfections are always there with us , like we never find ourselves perfect in our dressing , looks , behavior  communication or work and many other things . Some peoples feels that they are imperfect in their studies , career , body , behavior or even in their language or looks . Everyone has some imperfections from qhich he alqays wanna get rid off in order to become a perfect person in the eyes of eberyone .
Have you ever thought  that why we feel ourselves as an imperfect person ? why we always doubt on ourselves of not being perfect ? Why we blame ourselves for being below than others ?
Let me make it all clear to you !
First of all we should know and keep it always in our mind that we all are human beings , we aren't like angels or jins or any magical person, So that we can't do mistakes or blunders . We are humans and believe me no human can be a perfect one for other peoples But still I do say that he can be a perfect one for his ownself . Actually In the world of today , everyone is just doing everything to show other's that yess I'm a good and a perfect one for you to look at and as everyone has it's own perspectives and mindset ,So you can't be a perfect one in someone's elses eyes !
The thing we should do is to be a perfect person for ourselves . Who the hell are those peoples who set a criteria for your personality and lifestyle??  Why you are running for the things that you will get only to show other's that yess I'm having it, as anyone else wanted you to have it .
it's your life you can set your own personality rules and just do everything for yourself because it doesn't even matter that what you are doing will impress other's or not . If you are doing good for yourself and others than just be confident on it . Just don't care for those who pull you down or do bad comments or anything because it's you who are giving them a chance or an option to judge you . If you are acting on someone's words and requirements than it's your own fault that you have made him your judge and that's why you feel imperfect.
Do whatever you want too . May be some people will not like you but still there will be many others too who will like you on being a real one but not the perfect one ! It's okayy it isn't a big deal to be rejected by someone according to his point of view because we aren't born to impress each and every person on Earth and Believe me we can't even if we try to do so .
In short , I just wanna say “Just live for yourself  and wear your flaws and imperfections as a part of yourself . Be the one who you actually are not that perfect one anyone else wanted you to be because not a single human being is 100% perfect . Everyone has some flaws and imperfections but not everyone can wear up them with proud and confidence !” ❤

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                                     Writer : #Amber #Khan