SELF-DEMOTIVATION IS A STEP TOWARDS FAILURE !

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams ! 💕

Don't ever demotivate yourself . You know when you just tell yourself that Yess I can do it than no power on this entire world can stop you from doing so . In the same way whenever you by yourself start saying that I can't do it , It's tough or hard than you can't my dear !
First of all believe on yourself . Don't bother what other's are saying to you because these all peoples are here just to find your errors and mistakes and they will talk about you good or bad, they will do so because they are here only for talking , judging and pointing nor for diing something or admiring . You should be confident enough that you can stand up on your own .
Okay let's take an example,  If there is no one in your life no friend no family member or no one else to help you than what will you do ? You will sut in your home? Or you will try to kill yourself because you have nothing to eat no money or nor even a little thing ? what happens than ????
May be you will wait for some magic from the Gid who will sent food , money or something magically.  No you will not . definitely you will go out to find food , you will work out for money. May be you will not get the best food or enough money but believe me you would have enough to eat and to be alive on your ownself .
In the same way , we are used too of many people around us , we just unintentionally depend on them for a lot of things in our daily life . That's why whenever there is any platform for us to stand alone and to do on your own , we just put ourself one step behind because we are afraid of standing alone . We just start demotivating ourself that how can I do it alone ? How can I win it ? It's difficult and I can't . May be you won it but just due to your demotivation you have already losed it even before trying for it !
The thing is that you shouldn't ever demotivate yourself . Stand up infront of everyone and say it loudly that Yess I can !!
But we usually don't do so even we may wanted to do so but we can't . You know why ???
why we stop ourselves from doing so ?? Just because we are afraid off from losing or we think that If I couldn't do it than I will be ashamed on it and people will make fun of me and that's why we just keep ourselves behind and can't even stand or take part nor even we try .
You know what ! losing something or not doing or achieving is not a big deal . You shouldn't be ashamed on it . Just feel proud and satisfied with yourself because in a large crowd of people you were the one who raised up your hand and stand up on your feet and tried your best infront of everyone . It's a moment of proud my dear ! you had something that other's can't , they can't even think about doing so than why are you afraid from them ?
Who the hell are those people who are making fun of you ??? These are losers themselves who can't even stand up and claim that  they can do so just due to the fear of being judge by others or being afraid from losing or may be due to a lot of reasons . You are above all of them because you had enough power to do it !

In short , There are a lot of people who are used too of judging us or making fun of us but we shouldn't be afraid of them because the peoples who can't do something by themselves just do try to stop other's doing so . They demotivate ourselves by pointing our weaknesses or errors . Just don't listen to them , do what what you always wanted too . Just go up for the things that gives courage and motivation to you for diing something in your life and do try each and everything because the thing is that we just learn more by our mistakes . If we just can't even try than how can we be the better one . So just try to keep yourself motivated and be away from the things which demotivate you because Self-Demotivation is a step towards failure !
             Thank you for reading !

                                         Writer : Amber Khan