Many people around us are studying and doing what their parents , family or someone decided for them . I have heard a lot from girls and boys both that my parents want me to be a doctor that's why I'm studying medical or wants me to be an engineer or something like this . You agree or not but it's the reality of our lives  that our future is either decided by our parents or someone else and don't worry you aren't the only one who are feeling a shit after reading this that Yeah ! Same thing was done with you but literally I was the one of you too . My parents always wanted me to be a doctor or to be in medical field because in a sense in our country Doctors and Engineers are the most favorite professions of the majority people and according to our tradition a girl should be a doctor and a boy must be an engineer .
The thing is that sometimes our parents don't understand that what we are and what type of hidden talent we are having in ourselves but believe me it's not there mistake too because I think every parents wants his child to be the best , the most precious and valuable and that's why they do so . You know what sometimes our own selves don't even know that what we actually want to do because we are confused too and for that reason we do take some wrong decisions due to ourselves too But I wanna tell you that Don't ever regret your decisions and especially your past one's ! You did what you were finding better for yourself at that time and definitely when you will grow up , you will feel a shame about whatever wrong things you did like the pictures of childhood or teenage make you feel a shame and happy too . Well all that decisions and things that had happened to you were just a part of your life , May be you weren't aware of all those things at that and you were an immature one . So just let them go , Don't ever take your past as your weakness ! Just accept whatever you did , whatever you have chosen by yourself or may be by someone's else but just put your all efforts in it by your heart . Just give it a chance , May be it becomes the best thing or the best decision of your life !
In short ! I just wanna say you that “Everything happens for a reason “ . Don’t blame your parents or yourself and don't regret you past for getting wrong decisions or for making mistakes because May be Allah has chosen the best for you by this way . The thing you have to do is just to put your heart and soul in it and just wait for the right time to come with a bundle of happiness and blessings for you !

    Writer : Amber Khan